Friends

Thank You God for My Friends

Have you ever wondered about this scripture?  Why would the Lord put such high value on teaching about greater love and laying down your life, especially for your friends?  Could it be that we may learn the most important lessons in this life because our friends come in such varieties, and they are not the familiarity of family.  Not one of Jesus’ twelve disciples was a close family member* and all of the twelve were so diverse and so different in personality, life backgrounds, strengths and weaknesses.  Could there ever be a more motley crew?  Lazarus, Mary and Martha were very close friends to Jesus, He wept when Lazarus died.

Friends are so important to our lives, they walk with us through hardships and heartbreak, through great rejoicing and successes. They are a deep necessity in faithfulness, encouragement, unconditional love, and loyalty, they are the ones we cherish and love with deep roots of commitment.  We  need friends to walk beside us, sometimes holding our hand through this journey. Sometimes friends fall into our lives, some we meet through mutual interests, and then there the ones that God sends our way specifically.

One day while spending time with the Lord and feeling separated from those closest to me; I began to pray.  I prayed for a new friend that would be loyal and always there for me, who would never be too busy to not want to spend life together.  God answered me in two days.  You know the Lord has a sense of humor, right? He divinely smiles when He chooses the answers to our prayers.  Well, He sent Janice into my life; she was one wild child, passionately in love with Jesus, though a little rough around the edges – a diamond in the rough.  I knew instantly she was the one.  (God is still smiling), Janice was not what I expected at all.  She was a recovering 35-year drug addict, stripper, and male companion – things I couldn’t even relate to, but there is a fire for knowing God in her heart.  Our commonality was Jesus.  She has the most loving heart, a deep desire for learning more of the kingdom, faithful, full of joy, willing to do whatever God asks of her, a prayer warrior, and always there for me. The Lord showed me how much Janice is greatly loved by Him and my heart changed knowing that.  I have never known anyone like her and I know that she will be a life time friend.  Don’t judge by outward appearance, God looks on the heart, and He knows you better than yourself.  So if He picks a friend for you, they will be perfect.

We need the companionship of a friend, if not many. We are not an island, but a community of believers who do life together.  If you need friends, just ask the Father to send you the perfect people who will fill your life with fellowship and love. Of course, Jesus is the One who sticks closer than any brother or personal friend, who will never leave you or forsake you, who is with you always.  You need both!

If you want to read an excellent book on friendship, that is so clear and thoughtful, read, The Power of a  Positive Friend, by Karol Ladd and Terry Ann Kelly. Available on Amazon Kindle.

Here are some friend quotes:

We can never replace a friend.  When a man is fortunate enough to have several, he finds they are all different.  No one has a double in friendship.  -Friedrich von Schiller

A true friend is the gift of God, and He only who made hearts can unite them. -Robert South

I have learned that to have a good friend is the purest of all God’s gifts, for it is a love that has no exchange of payments. -Frances Farmer

He who is true to one friend thus proves himself worthy of many. -Anonymous

Dear Lord, my friends have been to me,  Interpreters of love divine,  And in their kindness I have seen, Thine everlasting mercy shine… -Martha Shell Nicholson

A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him, I may think aloud. -Ralph Waldo Emerson

 

Consider these scriptures:

♥  “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work:  If one falls down, his friend can help him up.  But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up!” -Ecclesiastes 4:9-10

♥  “No longer do I call you servants, for a servant does not know what his master is doing; but I have called you friends, for all things that I heard from My Father I have made known to you.” -John 15:15

♥  “You are My friends if you do whatever I command you.” – John 15:14

♥  “A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for adversity.” – Proverbs 17:17

 

  • Some say that many of the disciples were Jesus’ cousins…I don’t know.

 

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